The internet has grown exponentially since its creation. It is now part of everyday life and a great place to connect with people, be creative and discover new things. The internet offers great solutions for everyday problems and is widely used for education, entertainment and social networking. In the classroom, it is used to enhance our pupils learning and encourages independence for them to explore and discover new things.
It is natural for teenagers to explore, experiment and sometimes take risks; hence the importance of promoting safe and responsible usage of the internet in schools and at home. We need to make sure that we support them while using the internet to make sure they are accessing it in a safe, secure and knowledgeable way so that if anything was to go wrong, they know how to react and resolve the situation. In addition to this, being aware of privacy settings, filters and safe usage of social networking sites will enable young people to feel protected online.
If you have any worries or concerns about the way your child is behaving online, please contact Amanda Cook, Designated Safeguarding Lead.
Advice for parents
· Many young people are very anxious regarding how their parents may react if they are made aware of their child’s activity online. In many instances this prevents children/young people from speaking out when something is happening to them online. It is important that, whilst children are made aware of boundaries to their behaviour and advised how to keep themselves safe, they are also made aware that it is never too late to tell somebody if something goes wrong.
· Encourage children to think of an adult that they can trust to tell if somebody is frightening, upsetting or hurting them. This could be a parent, teacher, youth club worker or an agency like CEOP. Please emphasise to them that the main aim of that person will be try to keep them safe and to stop the behaviour that is causing them to be frightened or upset.
· If possible, remove or disable any webcam facility on the computer being used by the children. Only reinstall this at times when a trusted adult is able to supervise their use of it.
· Parents should have access to all of their child’s online accounts and control the passwords. In addition, we encourage parents to routinely review children’s internet accounts to ensure that they are not placing them at risk or are not being exploited by way of their activities online.
· When children are considering using a new game, website or application, we encourage parents to check the terms of service for that game, etc. to ensure they are fully informed of the nature of the provision (i.e. are there live chat facilities/webcam etc provided) and so they are sure their child meets the minimum age requirements. Children must be aged 13 years and above to hold a Facebook account and other websites used by children will also have minimum age restrictions.
· Remember that internet connection is included within smartphones, tablets, iPods, laptops and games consoles, not just computers, so the same precautions should be taken with them.
· We would also suggest parents link all of their child’s accounts, including emails, to their own. This means any emails their child gets, they will also get, which should warn them if their child registers for inappropriate websites or is in receipt of any suspicious contact.
· We advise children not to talk to anyone online that they do not personally know offline. This is sometimes made difficult due to the nature of games such as MMOs or other online communities, so we encourage children not to move people across platforms (i.e. from games to Snapchat or from Facebook to Zoom) unless they are known to them in real life.
· Parents should discuss the online identities that their child uses when online. Advise them of the risks in which they may place themselves if they portray themselves as being older or if they create online personas that include suggestive nicknames, their own name and or age. CEOP are often able to identify young people who come to notice, solely by the information they share within chats and their user names/online identities.
We also recommend that parents and children have a look at www.thinkuknow.co.uk. This is a CEOP website that has separate sections for parents and young people and has some great tips on how to stay safe online.